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Between Chaos & Order

My first RHS garden. A long border about what tending plants did for me after ten years in cyber security: balance, clarity and connection, and how gardens can support emotional wellbeing, especially for neurodivergent people.

 

Silver-Gilt medal  ·  Long Border  ·  22–26 July 2026  ·  Sandringham, Norfolk

RHS Sandringham Flower Show 2026 Silver-Gilt medal winner badge

RHS SANDRINGHAM 2026

Stem of lilac-purple flowers

THE IDEA

 

A border for slowing down

 

 

I planted a calm space in cool blues, lilacs, silvers and soft golds. Layers of naturalistic planting, gentle grasses and tactile foliage encourage slower looking and quiet participation. A reflective pool and a stone seat add stillness. The design borrows the repetition and symmetry of contemplative Eastern gardens, with Neofinetia falcata shown in the traditional fuukiran style. The same thinking runs through my mindful floristry workshops.

 

 

Height comes from a white-stemmed birch, Betula utilis subsp. jacquemontii, balanced by a standing stone and upright perennials. The name is the point: loose planting held by a clear structure, and somewhere to step out of the overstimulation of modern life.

Illustrated plan of the Between Chaos & Order border: birches, grasses and a stone in a timber planter
Gardener in hi-vis pruning lavender in the Between Chaos & Order show garden at RHS Sandringham

What’s in it

A raised long border, about 7 m by 2 m, with four things holding the planting together.

GRANITE

The stone

A 1.8 m granite standing stone. The still point everything else leans around.

WATER

The pool

A round reflecting pool. Sky on the ground.

REST

The seat

A circular stone seat and a meditation cushion. You are meant to stop.

HEIGHT

The birch

White-stemmed Himalayan birch, for height and light.

Look around

Drag to look around the border as it stood on the showground. See if you can spot me! 360° photo: GardensDB

At the show

Five days in July on the Sandringham Estate, and a lot of people stopping to sit down.

Watch

Two short films from the showground, and a chat at the border.

A WALK ROUND THE BORDER

MY FAVOURITE PLANTS IN IT

INTERVIEWED BY THE CLOUD GARDENER

Jason Williams, the Cloud Gardener, stopped at the border on his tour of the show and asked about calm planting and my move out of cyber security. My part starts at 16:52. Watch the full tour on YouTube.

Purple mallow flower

Agapanthus ‘Arctic Star’

Agapanthus ‘Blue Umbrella’

Artemisia abrotanum

Betula utilis subsp. jacquemontii

Campanula lactiflora ‘Prichard’s Variety’

Deschampsia cespitosa ‘Goldtau’

Echinacea purpurea ‘White Swan’

Geranium ‘Dreamland’

Hakonechloa macra

Hosta ‘Halcyon’

Hydrangea paniculata ‘Great Star’

Limonium latifolium

Neofinetia falcata ‘Kibana’

Neofinetia falcata ‘Perfect Diamond’

Nepeta ‘Summer Magic’

Nicotiana sylvestris

Phlox paniculata ‘Blue Paradise’

Salvia ‘Lake Silvretta’

Salvia nemorosa ‘Crystal Blue’

Salvia yangii ‘Blue Spire’

Sedum ‘Bertram Anderson’

Soleirolia soleirolii

Stipa tenuissima

Thalictrum delavayi ‘Hewitt’s Double’

The plant list

Cool blues, lilacs, silvers and soft golds. Twenty-four plants, as submitted to the RHS.

What happened next

Show gardens are temporary. This one kept going.

Dan tending the planting at Gamesley Community Garden

THE PLANTS

Most of the planting was lifted after the show and now grows at Gamesley Community Garden. See its second life

The Between Chaos & Order border in its timber bed on the showground at RHS Sandringham

THE JOURNAL

What happens to a show garden afterwards, and why mine went to Gamesley. Read the post

Naturalistic planting around the reflective pool in Between Chaos & Order, RHS Sandringham

FOR YOUR GARDEN

Loose, naturalistic layers held by a clear structure. It is how I plant every garden. Garden and planting design

The move made the front page of the Glossop Chronicle. See all press  ·  The border on the RHS website  ·  Look around it in 360° on GardensDB

A collaboration rooted in shared values

Sprig of purple salvia flowers

MADE WITH HOMES REIMAGINED

Homes Reimagined logo

Homes Reimagined creates thoughtful, accessible and future-proof living spaces that help people live more comfortably, independently and beautifully at home. Led by occupational therapy insight, their work brings together practical adaptation, inclusive design and an understanding of how spaces shape everyday life. homesreimagined.co.uk

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Quintessence

Purple mallow flower

Quintessence grew out of my own experience of how much a garden can help. I design gardens and events not simply as beautiful spaces, but as places of refuge. Through plants and flowers, the aim is to reconnect people with nature.

Together, we are creating environments that nurture both mental and physical wellbeing: spaces that support rest, restoration and a healthier relationship with the world around us.

The border was sponsored by Homes Reimagined and Bernhard’s Nurseries.

Good to know.

What did it win?

A Silver-Gilt medal at RHS Sandringham Flower Show 2026, in the Long Borders category. It was my first RHS design. See it on the RHS website

Where is it now?

Most of the planting was lifted after the show and replanted at Gamesley Community Garden in Glossop.

Can I see it?

Can I have planting like this at home?

The show border is gone, but the plants are growing at Gamesley, and you can look around the original in the 360° photo further up this page, taken by GardensDB.

Yes. This is how I plant gardens: loose, naturalistic layers held by a clear structure. Start with garden and planting design, or book a free consultation.

Want a garden that slows you down? Tell me about it. No brief needed.

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